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Win friends influence people
How to win friends & influence people
How to win friends & influence people provided by Love of Books self publishing success- Brisbane, Sydney, Melbourne, Adelaide, Perth, Darwin, Canberra, Hobart & Australia-wide!
Fundamental Techniques on Handling People
You know the saying: Please don't do that!
Please Don't Do That! Do what?
You might feel that you have done nothing wrong and maybe the fact is that you did not mean to do anything wrong, however the other persons feelings are hurt.
Simply, listen to their feelings and then, seperate your feelings of hurt here. Realize that this is how they took it and you just need to let them know that you did not mean it the way they took it.
If someone upsets you you can follow this principle:
Say: I feel________ when you______ and I would much rather that you________ in the future.
Write it down on a business card size peice of card and keep in your pocket or bag. This is a good way to stand up for yourself without causing hurt on another person or bottling up your feelings. Hold your head high, practice it to yourself over a few times with a friend or in the mirror.
Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
Give honest and sincere appreciation.
Arouse in the other person an eager want
Six ways to make people like you
Become genuinely interested in other people.
Smile.
Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
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Win people to your way of thinking
- The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
- Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
- If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
- Begin in a friendly way.
- Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
- Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
- Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
- Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
- Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
- Appeal to the nobler motives.
- Dramatize your ideas.
- Throw down a challenge.
Don't worry about being popular. Love your friends you have that are loyal to you and love your family, especially your wonderful children.
Let people see that you are a grateful person for everything you have and your life right now especially your health. Especially in this declining economy.
Everybody wants money, everybody wants to be rich. But if you spent your life worrying about money then you will waste good times with loved ones etc.
There is plenty of information availabele to yu on budgeting and making ends meet. Some things are needed but some things are only a luxuary. Worrying about what you havent got and working your pants off to pay for things by credit are both bad for your health.
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Be A Leader - How to Implement Change Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment
A leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this:
- Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
- Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
- Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
- Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
- Let the other person save face.
- Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
- Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
- Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
- Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
I did a little search on the internet to see if i could find popular most searched words in google and this is what i came up:
If you have a website, write articles, or want to profit through an affiliate program than this is gold to you! These keywords are the actual top 11 on the internet. Use them and you are on your way to increased traffic, profits and results. Here they are and a little about each to help you on your way. Dont use them in your paid adwords campaign.
1) Paris Hilton.
Whether we like it or not Paris Hilton and her wild lifestyle are here to stay as she is now considered one of the biggest stars. Paris Hilton is sought after by almost every fashion designer and her keywords will do well with any fashion or clothing content. Go, Paris Hilton!
2) Google
Well, this one is obvious as Google is the largest search engine (regardless what Yahoo says). Being that Google is a search engine it can be used in any content, but works best with relation to websites, search engines, computers and software. Get google!
3) Yahoo
The second largest search engine and distant second on Pay per Click campaigns - very, very distant at that. The same will work for Yahoo. Stick with computer related material and you will do well. I Like Yahoo!
4) Ebay
The worlds largest marketplace and auction. Ebay, for the most part is a wholesale marketplace. It is ruled by feedback and can give you a good idea as to the real value of a car (check Ebay motors). On Ebay anything goes including people selling tattoo advertising on themselves. In other words, anything can be linked to Ebay in one way or another. Yes, there is even porn on Ebay.
5)Eminem
Yes, the real slim shady is back. According to R and B and rap he never left as he is the number one rapper currently. If you need content on current music or teen and young adult topics Eminem is sure to bring you visitors.
6) Britney Spears
She was the hottest pinup for teens and preteens, but now she is probably pregnant again. I wonder why Kevin Federline didn't make the list - is it that he isn't a good singer? Britney is great for adolescent or music related content. Dont you feel sorry for Britney Spears or any star that has the press focus on scandals.
7) mapquest
Want to know where something is or how to get there. Being that we are getting closer to summer people are plotting out there vacations. Or, maybe, due to increasing gas prices thanks to George Bush, maybe they are figuring that its too far and will cost too much in gas. I bet if Hillary Clinton were President these gas prices wouldn't be any higher than $1.60 per gallon. These high gas prices have to do with the Bush family and their ties to big oil and energy. See, Mapquest can be linked to just about any content you want if you just try a little. Give mapquest a go!
8) Tsunami
Even though the big one is over. Relief efforts are still in effect and so are the relief efforts for Katrina. Hint - these people still need lots of help. Tsunami is probably a big keyword due to the recent specials on TV about the next possible tsunami that might hit America. People are concerned and interested over these large scale natural disasters. When is the next earthquake going to hit California, will atsunami hit New York, and what will this hurricane season bring? Tsunami
9) Girls
Yes, of course. There are millions of perverts and closet perverts out there that are a little over-fascinated with girls. As Donald Trump once said, "sex sells." Yes it does and nothing sells better than women or girls. They can sell anything including the worst items in infomercials and complete scams. A beautiful girl just needs to show a little cleavage and TV ratings soar. Just think what girls can do for your content.
10) American Idol
This is the top rated TV show and its in its 5th or 6th season. It has launched one star - Kelly Clarkson and a bunch of duds. Randy, Paula and simon have now become household names along with Ryan Seacrest. Any content you can tie into the current cast will do well. The previous casts should be avoided as they will soon go back to karaoke and such at local bars.
11) Skin care and skin treatment
This has always been a big one with women. It has been rumored that women will go without food before they will go without makeup and such. Just ask any department store how important skin care and skin treatment products are to their bottem line. Watch Shop NBC - almost every product on there has something to do with skin care and skin treatment for women. There are a wide variety of topics you can easily talk about here from the latest in laser therapy at dermatology offices and at home TCA skin peels for treating acne and wrinkles. Acne is and always will be a big topic as will wrinkles and their respective treatments. For more info on at home TCA skin peels please see the link below.
There you have it the top 11 keywords on the internet from Paris Hilton to skin care and skin treatment to Google and American Idol. All with tips on how to use them to make your content have more impact and drive more traffic.
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